The Stoics had no patience for virtue that stayed theoretical. Action was the test of everything.
For the Stoics, virtue was not an internal state or a belief system. It was a pattern of action. Marcus Aurelius: waste no more time arguing about what a good person should be. Be one. The measure of character was not what you intended or believed but what you actually did.
This is both demanding and clarifying. It cuts through the gap between self-concept and behaviour that addiction often widens. You may have a strong self-image as someone who is honest, loyal, and decent. The inventory has shown you places where your actions did not match that image. Step 9 is where the gap begins to close.
Zeno, who founded Stoicism, was known for saying that virtue in action is the only wealth worth having. Not virtue planned. Not virtue felt. Virtue expressed in the specific choices you make with specific people in specific moments.
"Well-being is realised by small steps, but is truly no small thing."
Zeno of Citium
The qualification, except when to do so would injure them or others, is a piece of genuine Stoic practical wisdom. The goal is not to discharge your guilt. The goal is to repair harm where repair is possible and helpful. These are not always the same thing. An amend that reopens wounds or causes new harm is not an amend. It is a burden transferred.
The Stoics would say: discern carefully. Act wisely. The intention to repair is not enough. The action has to actually serve the person you harmed, not just relieve your own conscience.
What this step requires is courage. Not the dramatic courage of grand gestures, but the quiet courage of sitting with someone you have hurt and saying, honestly and without defence, what you did and what you are doing about it. That is a small action. It is also very difficult. And it is, in the Stoic sense, virtuous: it costs something real and serves something real.
For each person on your list, ask: what would genuine repair look like for them, not for me? In some cases it will be a conversation. In some cases it will be changed behaviour over time. In some cases it will be leaving someone alone to heal. For each, identify the next right action, however small.